Sexy After Breast Cancer
Both in my groups and in individual sessions, we often have spirited discussions of sex after breast cancer. Although there are always serious and distressing issues discussed, we recognize the power of humor. Here, then, is a list of
Top 10 ways to" bring sexy back" after having breast cancer
- Remember that in bed it's not how you look that matters, but how you act and how you feel
- Talk about it with your partner.
- Take the pressure off sex by agreeing just to be close and snuggle.
- Take a shower or bath together.
- Give each other a foot and/or back massage.
- Experiment with massage oils.
- If vaginal lubrication is a problem, make sure to use adequate lubricant.
- Watch x rated movies
- Wear black fishnet stockings and high heeled shoes or anything else that helps you feel sexy.
- Get a lacy teddy that has a snap-closed crotch. Unsnap as desired.